I have been doing research on the presence of suicidal ideation among the mentally ill and those suffering from addiction. This is my latest research paper on the subject as of 3/30/2025.
At the core of human existence lies the Personal Imperative: the instinct to survive at all costs. This primal drive is the foundation of individual behavior, compelling us to seek food, shelter, and safety in the face of danger. It is the voice that urges us to flee from a predator, to fight when cornered, or to endure hardship when resources are scarce. The Personal Imperative is the bedrock of self-preservation, an unyielding force that prioritizes the continuation of one's own life above all else.
This instinct manifests in countless ways—through the adrenaline rush that sharpens our senses in danger, or the hunger that drives us to hunt or gather. It is a solitary imperative, focused solely on the self, and it operates with a fierce clarity: I must live. Yet, as powerful as this drive is, it is not absolute. The Personal Imperative can be overridden by higher orders of survival, revealing the complexity of human nature and the interplay of instincts that extend beyond the individual.
The Familial Imperative builds upon the personal drive to survive but elevates it to a collective level: the survival of the family unit at all costs, even if it demands personal sacrifice. This imperative reflects the recognition that our genes, our legacy, are carried forward not just by us but by those we hold closest—our kin. Parents shield their children from harm, siblings band together against threats, and spouses labor tirelessly to provide for one another. The Familial Imperative is the willingness to place the needs of the family above one's own, sometimes to the point of self-destruction.
Consider the family patriarch who, in a moment of despair, concludes that his family would thrive without him. Suicidal ideation can intertwine with the Familial Imperative when an individual perceives themselves as a burden—financially, emotionally, or otherwise. In such cases, the Personal Imperative to survive is overridden by a distorted logic: If I am gone, they will live better. This tragic sacrifice is not a rejection of survival but a redirection of it, prioritizing the family's continuation over the individual's existence. Historical and psychological studies, such as those on altruistic suicide (Durkheim, 1897), suggest that this behavior emerges from an innate drive to protect the kin group, even at the ultimate personal cost.
The Tribal Imperative extends the scope of survival to the broader community—the tribe—demanding its preservation at all costs, even if it requires the sacrifice of both personal and familial interests. The tribe, whether defined by blood, culture, or shared purpose, represents a collective identity and strength that transcends the individual and the family. When the tribe's survival is at stake, as in times of war or existential crisis, this imperative can override all else.
A soldier charging into battle, knowing death is likely, exemplifies how the Tribal Imperative trumps the Personal Imperative. His life is forfeit for the tribe’s greater good. More chillingly, a family patriarch might eliminate his entire family and himself if he perceives them as a liability to the tribe—say, in a famine where resources are too scarce to sustain all, or in a war where their presence might betray the group to enemies. This act, though horrifying, reflects a brutal calculus: The tribe must endure, even if we do not. Historical examples abound, from ancient Sparta’s eugenic practices to wartime atrocities where families were sacrificed to preserve a larger cause.
The Personal Imperative can be overridden by the Familial Imperative when an individual sacrifices their own survival for their kin. Suicidal ideation plays a role here, as seen in the patriarch who believes his death will unburden his family. Psychological research, such as Joiner’s Interpersonal Theory of Suicide (2005), posits that perceived burdensomeness and thwarted belongingness can amplify this shift, aligning self-destruction with familial survival.
The Tribal Imperative, in turn, overrides both when the collective’s survival demands it. In wartime, individuals and families are sacrificed—sometimes willingly, sometimes by force—for the tribe’s continuity. The patriarch who ends his family’s life alongside his own may see it as a mercy or a necessity, ensuring the tribe’s resources or morale are not depleted. Anthropological studies, like those on honor killings or ritual sacrifices in tribal societies (Boehm, 1984), illustrate how such acts can be culturally reinforced, yet their roots lie deeper, in instinctual priorities.
These imperatives are not merely learned behaviors shaped by culture; they are behavioral algorithms encoded in our DNA, honed by millions of years of evolution. The Personal Imperative mirrors the survival instincts of all organisms, driven by genes that prioritize replication (Dawkins, 1976). The Familial Imperative aligns with kin selection theory, where organisms sacrifice themselves for relatives who share their genetic material (Hamilton, 1964). The Tribal Imperative reflects group selection pressures, where cooperation and sacrifice enhance the survival of the collective (Wilson & Wilson, 2007).
Modern neuroscience supports this view. Studies on oxytocin and tribal bonding (De Dreu et al., 2010) show how brain chemistry fosters in-group loyalty and out-group hostility, while research on altruistic behavior in primates (Warneken & Tomasello, 2006) suggests these instincts predate human society. These are not choices we learn but imperatives we inherit, wired into our biology to ensure survival across scales—self, family, tribe.
Durkheim, É. (1897). Suicide: A Study in Sociology. Examines altruistic suicide as a social phenomenon. Joiner, T. (2005). Why People Die by Suicide. Introduces the Interpersonal Theory of Suicide.
Boehm, C. (1984). Blood Revenge: The Enactment and Management of Conflict in Montenegro and Other Tribal Societies. Explores tribal sacrifice dynamics.
Dawkins, R. (1976). The Selfish Gene. Discusses genetic drivers of survival instincts.
Hamilton, W. D. (1964). "The Genetical Evolution of Social Behaviour." Journal of Theoretical Biology, 7(1), 1-16. Introduces kin selection.
Wilson, D. S., & Wilson, E. O. (2007). "Rethinking the Theoretical Foundation of Sociobiology." Quarterly Review of Biology, 82(4), 327-348. Argues for group selection.
De Dreu, C. K. W., et al. (2010). "The Neuropeptide Oxytocin Regulates Parochial Altruism in Intergroup Conflict Among Humans." Science, 328(5984), 1408-1411.
Warneken, F., & Tomasello, M. (2006). "Altruistic Helping in Human Infants and Young Chimpanzees." Science, 311(5765), 1301-1303.
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